I feel very strange

It's nearing the end of the school year, I'm 3 days behind on a paper that can save my grade. I need to retake things over in summerschool. I should be panicing, I should be scared, but I'm feeling oddly detached. Like I'm bobbing on an ocean, only the room isn't moving. Like I'm moving through something other than air. Like I'm hearing something other than speech. I can't make myself care anymore. I can't help but wonder if my body has shut down into a sleep mode. I feel a pulse somewhere above me

I NEED A RETURN TO THE EARTH

I haven't posted in a longwhile, mainly because I've been suicidal. More so than usual. Amoungst the normal 'mental breakdown dramas' I go through, I started a crying fit that I couldn't stop, to the point where I tried to make contact with suicide prevention. Surprisingly hard to get a hold of little buggers. The second happen right before school, where I woke up late and clustered fucked into a breakdown. I told dad it was sinuses, and he let me stay home. ANYWAY. I've spent maybe the entire month in some black pit of metaphoric despire. Which happens to me more often. But as you can tell by the upswing of this post I have reached on of my happy periods. I can't tell if it's one of my 'scary happy' stages, which I can only identify in retrospect, but I'm happy. Last night I watched this documentary on 'Free-birthing' in which a woman gives birth completely unassisted, no midwives or anything, just someoen she loves by her side. They preached that most women in the world aren't privvy to medical care upon birth, that hospitals take control over what is your job. They lay you back, prop your feet up, put up the paper curtian shield, and you can watch in the mirror as they tell you when to push, when to breath, when you're doing a good job, and sometimes numb you to the point where you birth, the most important thing in your life is more like a television show you're watching, disconeccted to the actual world. This is how I feel most of the time. Supervised, Advised, my responsibility taken away, kid-gloved, rose-color glassesed, not worried my pretty little head about it. And I wanted what those free birthing women had. A fuck you to the entire medical field (some even forgoing prenatal exams she was so tramatized by her first birth) On their own, in control, taking care of their child from day .5. And the strange thing was, except for like 1 exception: No one cried in pain. Since they didn't have to push and breath when their doctors said, they just shifted like animals giving birth no 'pant pant pant push' just running on instict, doing what felt natural, smiling for the camera, a little flushed, but looking oh so pleased and at peace, not harried, worried or pained, and the babies all popped out, healthy and not crying (except interestingly, the one baby belonging to the woman who screamed and breathed in her pregnacy) They would just come out, squeak, and cuddle up to their mums, breastfeeding. The women didn't look worn or exhausted, just smilely, a little tired. Some even went out that afternoon, or got up and showered. Like it was a normal routine.

That moved me. To say 'I'm not doing this right, and it is so much better wrong' approach. To go agaisnt your conditioning, your implanted common sense, and run with the instincts. I've listened to my heart and I have discern a few noble truths:

School IS bad. It's just not teenage angst, I'm not going to look back on these as the best years of my life. The system is flawed, the teaching is flawed, it is suffocationg, it's draining, it's horrible, and the grades mean as much as paper money in monoply. You learn little, memorize a lot. A classroom training parrots. Opinions are the ones you should have, not the ones you do. It is killing me and I'm removing myself from the poison. I will do my 7 hours, and no more, unless I feel that I am learning something. Unless I WANT to put forth the effort.

I NEED to exercise. It keeps me sane. it makes me happy I loved the 58 degrees the god put upon us today, I took kess out for a walk, I felt the wind, and was glad I stopped convincing myself to do the 'right' thing and stay home and study/clean/catch-up on things.

I CANNOT write whenever I want, but instead it's best before school in the early mornings with everyone asleep. I learn from writing, I respect it and it deserves my attention. I will get up an extra hour early to devote time to my writing. That's a responsibility I need. Not School itself.

I WILLNOT revert into passivity. I will bug dad to teach me driving, I will nag, I will bitch I will moan, because THAT is the only thing that gets things done. I have a predespotion to be ignored. I will shout, yell, and claw to get my way. Because that is what I need to do.

I WILL go back to my hippy newage music. My side bars of punk, rap, R&B, music I enjoyed but not loved has consumed my shuffle, taken over the folksy, less cool music that soothes my nerves.

WRITING, EXERCISE, MEDITATION WILL COME BEFORE ALL OTHER THINGS, MY MENTAL AND PHYSICAL HEALTH IS WORTH MORE THAN A COLLEGE DEGREE, A NEW BEST FRIEND, OR MONEY.

I will get a job like I've been saying for two years. I will earn and save a paycheck. I will move out, I will have plants I will have a garden and there is no such thing as I CAN'T or UNWISE DESCION, YOUR DESIRE.

I NEED TO RETURN TO THE EARTH, MY INSTICTISM OVER REALISM, BUT REALITY HAS BEEN COMPRIMISED.

So umm

I had a mental breakdown. I just suddenly started crying and couldn't stop and I felt so horrible and I actually googled for suicide help. I sent an e-mail to a suicide prevention place but they never replied and I can't call anyone because dad and hank are in the house and could hear me. I don't know what set it off, I was tired and slept, thinking dad would wake me up to go get our gym membership, and take me to the grocery store, but when I woke to hank blasting rap music, he just went on his own, and just forgot, I 'm crying again. I wish I could talk to him about htis but he doesn't believe in depression, when he's depressed like when mom died he just worked through it, he can't understand the concept of just giving up, of curling up and wanting to die. For him its just an extentsion of laziness. When talking about his friend Scott, who has became a hermit, and can't drive to work without panicing and hiding in his basement he said "I just can't understand how someone could do that, if I was in that situation, I would get a second job, I would get up and do something about it. Who can just sit there?"
I feel at a loss of someone to talk to, Suicide prevention hasn't emailed back, I just saw an email notice, but it was just Biggest Loser, who emails hourly. I need someone to talk to, I didn't realized how bad it was or how alone I am.
Hank hates me, and I hate him
Dad wouldn't take me seriously
Neither would Kali
Chibi would be, if I knew her number, Brinda not so much.
I just want to die and suicide prevention hasn't emailed me back and I can't get to a phone and I need to calm down I just don't know what to do, I can't keep doing this, I have so much to do and I just can't get it together why do I keep doikng this it's like I can't function, I'm such a fucking failure I get all the oppurtunities in the world and I can't be bothered to get up and get them and I can't belieive this is happening to me and I don't know why and I feel another crying fit coming on and I don't know what to do I don't I feel all out of options and more than a bit silly, like what do I have to be sad about? What could I do? I feel overdramatic and foolish like in a few minutes I'll get over myself and realize how egotisitcal I'm being, but I can't drive and don't have a job and I feel so trapped in this house and non-independent and helpless and I hate myself for it. Kali just whined and bothered until Dad took her to get a job, and get her permit and her lincenes, obviously I don't want it as much, I just feel so isolated from everything, with not htikng to esacpe to or from and I'm crying again and can't type and I can't remember how to breath.

Maybe too much faith in people?

Why do I tell Kali anything? I rarely do, and now I remember why. I remember why I didn't tell her about this blog. I remember why I don't tell her about my day, or my personal thoughts or wishes.

Because she's a bitch.

"Have you done your homewoooork?"
"Why is it releveant?"
*snorts* You tell me

A reference to my shit grades SIGH

School Tommorrow, that explains it all yes?

Was I here today?

I don't think I was, as I only have vague recollections on what happen today. I assume it was a good day then. I need to exercise.........unless I've already done that too.

It only hurt for a minute

Dad drove us to school today, which was GREAT I didn't want to deal with the bus just yet. I made muffins asnds coffee for breakfast, and had a gronola bar for snack. We've bought a lot of healthy food at the grocery store. We had weigh ins today 4 POUNDS I think, it kep shifting as I stood in different places, but I'm always an optimist. School was okay, no homework except for like US history, and I didn't babysit, which means I should go do it now. I won't but I should. I AM going to exercise though, because that has a purpose and will better my life more than the names of the last 30 something presidents. I know I shouldn't think that way, but I do. I wish I could just test out of this entire thing. So stupid. ANYWAY, I went home and painted my nails, housekeeping that I hadn't had the energy for awhile to do. Then I napped, which was healthy. Had an orange for snack as well!
OH and the president got sworn in today, everyone was making such a deal about it. I was jsut chilling in my Advance Enviromental Science class, reading, while this 'historic' event that happens every 4 years took place. Then it dragged into lunch, but my MP3 was blasting Digital Love and I couldn't care less. I feel so removed from reality most times. I couldn't tell you who the last 5 presidents are. It's all so stupid., I'm so moving to Germany or a farm in rural India or Japan become a Thoreau like hermit. Now, I need to exercise and maybe do a little writing./homework. I'm really liking this story i'm writing it's Horror! I've never even thought of doing horror!